Tulip Festival!

One of the items on our spring family bucket list was to go garden viewing…specifically with tulips. After a few seconds of searching on the internet, I found the Wooden Shoe Tulip Festival in Woodburn, OR. I’ve been wanting to go for the last couple of weekends, but I guess it was good that we were otherwise booked because the tulips weren’t yet in full bloom.

Today, however, we made sure we had a free morning, and we headed down to see the tulips. They were beautiful! No picture can really capture the same beauty you see with your own eyes….but I tried anyway. I was amazed how many different varieties there are, and how each flower is unique.

Elias got to ride the wooden shoe train and the cow train. He laughed and said, “bump bump” as we bumped along the muddy path. He liked walking in the mud a bit, but mostly wanted to ride in the backpack. It was a gorgeous morning, beautiful scenery, and an outing we’d like to make a yearly tradition! Here are just a few of our pics:

 

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Oh No! My Son Is Just Like Me….

Today Elias and I went to the Play Boutique for the monthly meeting for the North Beaverton MOMS club. I joined about a month ago, and I’ve been meeting some other moms in the area. Play Boutique let the club meet there for free today so we got to try it out. The place was super clean, and they’ve got a lot of really fun looking stuff for the kids to play on/with. I wasn’t sure if Elias would want to play in there by himself, though. There were quite a few rowdy three, four, and five year olds, and he is still a bit young to play on big play structures by himself. No matter how big I think he is getting, Elias is still puny compared to the preschool aged kids.

Elias surprised me by actually playing fine by himself for about five or ten minutes. I got to sit in on part of the meeting. But then he decided to climb to the top of the play structure…and he got stuck at the top of the slide and started crying. I went in and got him down, but he was too nervous after that so he came to the rest of the meeting with me.

After the meeting, we still had about 30 minutes of play time left, but Elias refused to try anything. Even with me standing right next to him he would not play on or with any of the toys or with any of the other kids. He mostly just desperately clung to my legs or tried to climb on my lap. I was starting to get frustrated because a few of the other little kids were even trying to interact with him or hand toys to him, and he just clung to me even harder. I tried to force him to “have fun,” but it only made him more upset.

So I took a step back and asked myself why his behavior was making me upset. Why did I care so much if he played in there or not? Someday when he’s a teen he’ll probably want very little to do with me, and be happy to go off with his friends and play. I asked myself some questions. Why can’t I just enjoy the hugs and closeness he gives me now? Why can’t I listen to what he is saying with his body and his voice and just let him play near me where he is comfortable? Why am I ruining our fun outing by being upset?

Then it occurred to me….It’s because his behavior reminded me of myself. I, who was painfully shy growing up, am realizing that I have a shy son. He is nervous around strangers and around other kids. I know that is somewhat normal at this age, but compared to other kids his age, he is still more “shy” than them. It’s not a bad thing. But it does remind me of myself. Being shy caused so much stress for me when I was younger. Being shy made me miss out on some cool opportunities. I don’t Elias to have to go through all of that.

But Elias is who he is. As his mom, I have to realize where he is at, accept it, love him, and help him the best I can. If that means letting him sit on my lap, then so be it. If that means waiting a few months to go back and try Play Boutique, so be it. I love my son. My expectations for how he should act, and what he should want were different from his reality. Now I am trying to fix that.

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Easter in Pictures

We had a wonderful Easter yesterday. We started new family traditions, we took Elias on his first (two) Easter egg hunts, we attended a nice Easter worship service at our church, we had a fun dinner with family, and it was a beautiful day to add to it all! Here is our Easter in pictures (I didn’t have the camera with me everywhere obviously, but here is what I captured of the day):

Elias found his Easter basket almost as soon as he woke up. He was excited to pull out the books, the bubbles, sun hat, and other treasures inside.

One of our new family Easter traditions is to read the resurrection story as a family. We got this story of the empty tomb to start out.

After reading the Easter story, Elias went on his first egg hunt. Elias found a few eggs right away.

Elias liked opening each egg as he found it instead of putting them in his basket. But then he got upset when we wouldn't let him eat the crackers or chocolates inside. I think we hid too many eggs too....there are still "unfound" eggs almost 48 hours later because he lost interest. Oh well. He had fun with the ones he did find.

After the egg hunt at home, we ate cinnamon rolls for breakfast (another new Easter tradition) and got ready for church. Elias got to participate in his second Easter egg hunt in the woods behind St. Bart's.

He's almost got it!

Elias liked playing in the woods better than finding eggs. It was hard for me not to pick them up for him. But I'm sure there will be plenty of years for him to run around grabbing eggs by the handful. Yesterday, he just enjoyed himself.

Our family on Easter.

Then, Elias got to play in the nursery while Nathan and I attended the worship service.

When we got home, I had to bake a pie for Easter dinner later in the day. Nathan took Elias outside to play and enjoy the sunshine. He also allowed him to get dirt and grass stains. Boys will be boys.

Elias also got to try out his new bubble machine.

After putting the pie in the oven, I went outside to join the boys. I love watching Elias play on the bridge in the wetlands. Especially in this cute suit jacket.

Ok...time for lunch and a nap! It's been a big day so far!

In the evening, we hosted an Easter dinner at our house. Elias got to play with Grandpa and Grandma Bartle, Uncle Scott and Auntie Kristy, Great Uncle Jim and Great Auntie Jeani, and Grandma Smith. This morning he enjoyed playing with the dump truck Grandma Smith brought for him.

Overall it was a wonderful Easter.

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Easter Eggs

When I was a little girl, I would sometimes get sad because I would realize that when I became the Mommy, there would be no one to hide Easter eggs for me to find on Easter morning. It must have been my Mom’s best kept secret, though, that it is actually more fun to fill and hide the Easter eggs than to hunt for them.

Nathan and I just finished filling some plastic eggs with stickers, goldfish crackers, pom-poms, and yes, a few chocolates. Then we went around our living room “hiding” them. I was giddy with the anticipation of watching Elias find them. I am so excited to see his little pointer finger sticking out to show us what he sees. I can’t wait to watch his eyes sparkle with delight as he finds a treasure inside each one. I’m sure there will be pictures to post of Elias’ first Easter egg hunt soon!

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Kindergym, Teeth, and Early Easter Baskets!

Now that Elias is 18 months old, there are a lot more opportunities open to him for classes through the Tualatin Hills Park and Recreation District. (Of course it’s nothing compared to the three year olds…but that will come soon enough). I asked Nathan for some input on what to sign Elias up for this season. Nathan wanted Elias to take a tumbling class.  The closest thing I could find was a kindergym class. Today was our first one. Unfortunately, Elias is cutting his first canine tooth right now…so he was a tad bit grumpy. At the beginning of class, Elias seemed a bit concerned about the bouncyness of the mats and mostly just fussed if I didn’t hold him. I was a bit worried when he wouldn’t try anything….but then I found the ball pit in the back corner of the room. The kids were supposed to walk across a balance beam that was about waist high on an adult, then jump off of it into the ball pit. Elias wanted to play with the balls very badly. His first time across the balance beam was not very successful. He kept stepping off of it because he wanted me to hold him and because he wasn’t watching where he was going. I had to support all of his weight. But when we reached the end and he got to jump in the ball pit, he was a very happy camper. When his turn was over, he raced back around to the beginning and wanted to try again. By his fourth trip across the balance beam, Elias was able to walk across himself while just holding on to one of my fingers with each of his hands. We did that balance beam and ball pit about twenty times. Elias opened up a bit after that and had some fun…but I’m still looking forward to next week when he (hopefully) won’t be feeling teething pain anymore.

This evening Elias had an eventful evening as well. After going swimming and having a very fussy bath (again…due to teething) Elias got to see grandpa and grandma Bartle. They brought over his Easter basket early! Elias was very excited to see them. He got some new play-doh (perfect timing! ours is getting pretty dried out) a toy train, and some chocolate chips. When it was time for bed, Elias was sad to see them go. After we shut the door he kept saying “buh-bye” for a really long time, and he kept pulling on the door handle to try and go outside. We thought it would have warmed Grandpa and Grandma’s hearts if they could have seen it. After some tylenol and his bedtime routine, Elias is sleeping.

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Play Group

I recently joined the North Beaverton MOMS club. I had been wanting to join something like it, but didn’t know it existed until I read about it in the blog of a friend. I joined last month, and as part of the MOMS club, I also joined a play group. I want to have more interaction with other moms, but I also want Elias to have more playmates. Because I stay home with him, he doesn’t get the same kind of interaction with other kids as kids who go to daycare do. Plus it’s all just fun.

Today we had our first play group meeting. I think Elias had a lot of fun. The kids played well together/next to each other. Here’s to a fun future with our new play group!

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Sprinklemania!

One of the items on our Smith Family Spring Bucket List was to bake Easter cookies. I dug through my cookie cutters and picked out a few I thought went well with Easter. We decided to let Elias decorate the cookies. I knew it would be a messy adventure, but thought it was worth it to let him have the experience. He did love it! But there is only one word to describe the mess…sprinklemania. Elias actually used up every sprinkle we have…it’s probably a good thing. Most of those sprinkles were purchased near the beginning of our marriage…so almost six years! Here is the sprinklemania saga told in pictures:

Step One: Making the dough. Elias likes to watch the mixer spin.

My boys excited for cookies! I made the dough, and we are playing together while it chills:

Some of the cookies I rolled and cut. They are ready to go in the oven!

The beginning of sprinklemania!

More sprinkles! More sprinkles!

“Uh Oh! I think a few ended up on the floor, Mom.”

Finishing Touches

Taste testing the sweet goodness!

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The messy business of emergency preparedness

In recent months I have been slowly starting to be more concerned with our family’s emergency preparedness. So we have flashlights, a portable rechargeable radio, a first aid kit, a fire ladder, and a few other items. My next big things will be to stockpile 3 days of food and water (and diapers). We’re on our way to preparedness.

Last weekend at the Portland Water Walk I became aware of the potential need for emergency toilets. In a large earthquake, sewer and water service may be disrupted, leaving no recourse for nature’s call except, well, nature. However, a group called Phlush had an info booth at the walk with instructions to make the Christchurch Twin emergency toilet. It is so named because of the earthquake which struck Christchurch, New Zealand recently. So I decided to make my own.

The premise is simple:

  • Two 5-gallon buckets, with lids
  • One for pee (which can be emptied safely outdoors as-needed)
  • One for poop (which can be layered with sawdust or coffee chaff after each use)
  • A toilet seat

I have acquired the buckets, and got some coffee chaff for free at the walk, so all I need now is a toilet seat. Seats for 5-gallon buckets are for sale, but I’m trying to find one in the area before resorting to an online purchase and shipping fee. Let me know if you know where to find one locally. Otherwise I may consider adapting a cheap standard toilet seat to fit on a bucket. Fun stuff!

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18 Months!

Look how tiny he was!

When Elias was a baby I would count months, and sometimes even weeks. I would always know how old he was. Each time 7:02 p.m. came on a Thursday I would make another mental check mark. Another week old. I don’t know when I stopped paying attention to how old he was…it’s not like I don’t know. I just don’t think about it as much. But this morning I realized that today Elias is exactly 18 months old.

The big 18 month old

 

 

 

It is bittersweet. I love Elias so much. It seems that I love him more and more every day, and each age just gets better and better. But he is definitely not a baby any more. My boy is growing up.

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Rainy Day Swim

I wanted to take Elias for a fun activity today. We hadn’t been to the zoo in awhile so I thought we should go there…but the weather is miserable. We probably could have had the place to ourselves if we had gone, but we opted for an indoor option instead. I took Elias swimming! It was the first time he got to try out his new swimsuit and rash guard for this season, and even better, Grandma Smith got to come swimming too since it is spring break and she has the week off from work.

As we were getting ready in the changing room, Elias enjoyed playing peek-a-boo with me behind the curtain. He also made sure to parade himself a little. He got many “hellos”, smiles, and “how cutes” from some of the older ladies in there. After his mission to be noticed was accomplished, he wanted to go check out the showers, but I captured him just in time, and started changing him into his swim diaper and swim suit. Just then Grandma Smith showed up and he said, “hi,” in that cute voice of his. He then commented on Grandma’s “hat” (A swim cap).

Elias had lots of fun in the pool. There was a lot going on so there was a lot for him to take in (including a life guarding class!). He enjoyed the classic games such as motor boat, motor boat, and he loved watching us blow bubbles. We played with balls and noodles and rings. I dunked him once. He even did not protest while I floated him on his back! (Although he maintained a death grip on my hair…but that’s ok for now.)

All in all a very fun morning out.

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