Our Grand Adventure – Part IV – Pennsylvania

Our adventure continued on the shores of Lake Erie. We wanted the boys to be able to dip their toes in the water. The beaches were closed for just a few more days until Memorial Day, but we didn’t actually want to swim anyway. Just dip our toes. The day was beautifully sunny, but there was a pretty frigid wind coming off the lake. And the lake itself was absolutely freezing. But dip our toes in the water we did!

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I was a little worried with no sand toys and no swimming that the boys would get bored. That was silly of me! With rocks and sticks around, who needs toys? The boys hunted out the best rocks to throw into the waves.

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P1220496After playing on the beach we found a nice park with a playground for a picnic. The boys had fun testing their skills on the big boy play equipment.

P1220532 P1220534Next, we drove down to Pittsburgh to catch a Pirates game. Nathan has always wanted to see PNC Park.

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The boys really enjoyed watching the game, and got a kick out of shouting “Let’s Go Bucs!”

P1220545 P1220555 P1220563Unfortunately, we didn’t get to witness a Pirates win, but we stayed eight innings and got to witness many home runs, including one that cleared the entire park! We got back to the hotel extremely late and tried to rest up before the next leg of our trip…Ohio and my brother’s wedding!

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Our Grand Adventure – Part III – Canada!

There we were waking up on the 37th floor with the beautiful Niagara Falls right outside our window. We decided to take it easy. We would go sight seeing, but we also would make sure the boys had some normalcy. Naptime/quiet time. Normal as possible meals. Relaxed schedule. We slept in, ate a leisurely breakfast, and then finally headed out to see the falls up close on the Canadian side. We decided to try to use the Niagara bus system. Here is Elias learning how to read the schedule.

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When we had seen the falls on the American side, the boys had seen the boat tours down on the river. We decided to do the Hornblower Cruise first since the boys were so excited about it. The timing was perfect and we walked right on the boat, bright red ponchos and all.

P1220258The boat tour was pretty amazing. We got to get very close to the falls and hear the water pounding. There was a ton of mist. Here is our first family picture of the trip with the American Falls in the background.

P1220277After the tour, it was already time for lunch since we had had such a leisurely morning. We stopped at a food court-ish place where the food was terrible but the views were amazing.

P1220287After nap time, we decided to take the boys on the incline railway for fun. Basically, it is a glass case that rolls down a nearly vertical track with an excellent view of the falls.

P1220299The view from the railway car.

P1220301We hopped at the bus at the bottom and went to Clifton Hill, which has a ton of entertainment and shops. The Rainforest Cafe was our destination. We ate a yummy dinner, and then let the boys have some fun in the arcade. Simon even hit the bonus on one of the games and got 500 tickets at once! Those tickets were coming out for a really long time!

P1220309Then we just had to visit the Hershey’s store. Who wouldn’t?

P1220312Then Simon did this which I thought was both really cute and really gross at the same time:

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Finally, we headed back to our hotel for an evening of swimming and relaxing.

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That concluded our first full day in Canada.

The next morning we woke up a bit earlier in order to drive to Toronto and visit the zoo. We were excited because they host a few animals that we’ve never gotten to see in person before. The day was beautiful (Nathan and I even got slight sunburns), and Nathan got some real Canada driving under his belt. The boys enjoyed seeing the animals, but overall were still pretty tired and insisted on riding in the stroller…which was a problem since there were two boys and one stroller. They were innovative, however:

P1220395We got to see pandas, gorillas, kangaroos, wombats, and many many more interesting animals. The boys were also thrilled to see some of the more common animals such as lions, giraffes and rhinos.

P1220324 P1220329 P1220344 P1220376 P1220388We got stuck in a bunch of traffic on the way back to Niagara, which put me in a terrible mood since I am pregnant and did not have access to a bathroom. However, we made the best of our situation, and got in an early bed time for the boys. Finally!

Our final morning of our time in Canada was also a beautiful day. We decided to head back down to the falls and take the “Journey Behind the Falls” tour. It was cool to see the falls so close, and walk through tunnels behind the falls.

P1220439 P1220450We had a bit of driving to do that day to reach our next destination, but we decided to stick around for a few more great views and lunch before setting off.

P1220419 P1220430P1220467As we pulled out of the parking lot, the boys were yelling “Bye bye water!” They had a wonderful time, and overall we wished we had more time to explore the area. We were off, though for the next leg of our trip…Pennsylvania!

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Our Grand Adventure – Part II – The First Look at the Falls

After such a long travel day, what did we have in store for us when we woke up the next morning? More travel! We rented a car and drove to Niagara Falls! The drive is only about four hours from Cleveland. The boys did really well in the car for the first three hours, but we were glad that my parents had loaned us their ipads for the last hour or so.

P1220167We drove through the very top tip of Pennsylvania, and a bit of New York. I had never been in either of those states. The scenery was pretty but a bit repetitive. Deciduous trees. Lots of deciduous trees. Although, there was a long stretch of the New York thruway in which the entire first row of trees along the freeway was just dead. It was very creepy and made me dub New York as “The Land of Dead Trees.” I’m sure that’s not all there is, but it’s what we saw.

Before crossing into Canada, we decided to see the falls from the American side. We had heard from many people that the Canadian side is much better, but we still wanted to see it. Plus the boys needed a break from the car! The day was overcast so we didn’t get the most beautiful pictures, but the falls were just as majestic as ever, I’m sure.

Here is our first view, standing next to the river just above horseshoe falls.

P1220172We wandered around looking at the falls from different angles.

P1220187The boys really enjoyed looking at the falls, the tour boats down below, and most of all running around.

Who can look at the falls when there are rocks to jump off of?

P1220213Or wet ground to get dirty from?

P1220218Here is our first view of the American Falls.

P1220203Walking around the state park was great. We got to stretch our legs and see such beautiful sights. There was hardly anyone even there.

P1220223However, it was quickly approaching dinner time, and we still had to cross the border, get to our hotel, and get all the luggage inside before finding something for dinner. Luckily, the border crossing was uneventful, and we made it to our hotel.

We stayed at the Embassy Suites and had a gorgeous view of the falls right from our room.

P1220232P1220235We were glad to finally be at our destination. We were looking forward to a few fun days in Canada!

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Our Grand Vacation and Wedding Adventure! (Part 1)

We just returned from nearly two weeks of exhausting, fun and family filled vacation. If the criteria for knowing you had a fun trip is being completely and utterly exhausted, then I’d say we fulfilled that one hundred percent!

Our trip included two countries, four states, five hotels, 1300 miles of driving, and a big, beautiful family wedding.

We always tell ourselves after this kind of trip that we’ll never do it again. We’ll never try to cram so much in to one vacation. Yet we always fall into the trap because there is so much we want to see!

It all started with my brother. When he was a pilot in Arizona, he gave a tour of the Grand Canyon one July day, and the woman in the front seat of his helicopter introduced him to her daughter (who was in a back seat). She was moving to the area and needed friends. A year and a half later, he got engaged to that very girl and wedding planning began.

Since we knew we’d already be spending thousands of dollars for airfare, hotels, rental cars, and all the other wedding related expenses, we decided we’d just take a little family trip first to get our money’s worth. While we were already all the way over in Ohio, we may as well see some other stuff before wedding festivities began.

We left on a Thursday morning, and our first flight landed in Phoenix. Elias was extremely excited to be there because he has never been to Arizona before. He kept talking about how he could color it in on his travel map when we got home. Nathan and I aren’t counting it because he was only in the airport…but if you ask him, he’ll say he’s been to Arizona. Even though he hasn’t “officially” been there, I decided to take him to an airport gift shop while we were killing time in the airport. I thought I’d get him a sticker book or something to do on the next flight. However, he latched on to this cactus that said “Arizona.” My first thought was…”no way” but then I thought it was so cute that I just caved. I told him to pick something for Simon, and he picked a funny looking triceratops. Since then, Simon has latched on to that thing and brought it on all our adventures. It is quite cute how much he loves it.

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We flew into Cleveland, Ohio and our adventures began right away. Our flight was late, and in fact arrived so late that our hotel’s shuttle van had stopped running. We had to haul our massive load of luggage all around the airport looking for a way to get to our hotel with two extremely tired boys. Imagine having two adults and two little boys, and needing enough clothes for 12 days including cool weather, warm weather, sight seeing, and nice clothes for rehearsal dinners and wedding attire. We had diapers and food and all sorts of stuff. Anyway, we finally found a taxi driver who was comically rude to us about the amount of stuff we had.

Despite the reluctant cab driver, we did make it to our hotel at a little past 1:00 in the morning. We even started out exhausted! When I was trying to check in, I told the boys to go sit on the couch in the lobby. I thought they were pretty exhausted, but they still had enough juice in them to cause a little bit of mischief. I looked over at them to find them standing on the couch, having removed the backing cushions to use them as sumo-wrestlingish weapons. I couldn’t believe my eyes. What in the world were they doing?

We cleaned up the lobby, finally made it into our room, and got as much rest as we could before we set off early the next morning for the real start of our adventures. More on those to come. For now, I need rest!

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AWANA Awards Night

Tonight was Elias’ AWANA awards night. We got to celebrate all of the hard work all of the kiddos have done memorizing their verses throughout the year. We’ve been so thankful for this program and the leaders who have made it possible. Elias attended AWANA at Harvest Community Church, down the street from our house. They were so welcoming even though it is not our home church. Elias loved it and was very excited to go each week. I think he doesn’t realize he has to wait all the way to September to go again even though I’ve tried to explain it.

Our evening started with a yummy dinner. Elias even tried some watermelon. Of course…he gagged on it, but he went back in for more. It was quite surprising, but stranger things have happened.

After dinner, there were fun games and activities. There was a prize wheel, lots of play structures, a bouncy house, and more. We waited in the balloon line for a long time. Elias asked for a hat. He got quite an interesting one! An alien hat.

P1220078 P1220079After games and fun was the award ceremony. The cubbies started out by reciting their key verse, “God loved us and sent His son.” Here is Elias up in front:

P1220084Then individual awards were given out. Elias received patches for his vest, a certificate, and a special ribbon for completing every verse in his book.

P1220088 P1220090We are proud, and he is proud of himself. What fun!

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We’ll Give You Three Guesses…..

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The Necklace

Being a mother of two boys, I often think about the qualities I want to see develop in them as they grow up. I do a lot of teaching and modeling based on these certain qualities as probably all parents do.

For example, I choose curiosity over knowledge. I choose perseverance over talent. Faith over intelligence. Kindness over strength. Compassion over wealth or power.

It’s hard being the mother of boys and having these qualities as my priorities. Almost everything in our world tells boys and men that they should be strong. They should be intelligent and powerful. If not, they are weak. They are lesser somehow. There is a lot of bad media out there for girls. But there is a lot of uplifting, empowering media for girls too. There is a movement of sorts and it is getting a lot of attention. Little boys don’t have this. They are inundated with superheroes and power and strength. And there is no movement that tells them it is ok to be kind and compassionate too. Men are portrayed as strong or dumb. That is pretty much it.

But I try to teach them even at 4 and 2 years old that kindness, compassion, faith, and all of these qualities will make them stronger men in the long run. Look at Jesus, after all. He may have been considered weak in the sense that he refused to fight physically. He offered kindness and compassion to all he encountered. He turned the world upside down. That’s what I’d like to do for my sons too.

What is a strong man, really? I’d argue it is not the one who exerts his power at every chance. It’s not the one to which everything comes easily.

I do think it’s possible to have both. Just look at my boys’ father. He has curiosity and knowledge. Perseverance and talent. Faith and intelligence. Kindness and strength. But still I would say as I interact with my sons each day, I hope to see the former in each pair.

All this is just a preface to the fact that my son made me a necklace today. He actually made quite a few necklaces.

Yesterday at his art class, the teacher had a bunch of beads laying out with string so the kids could practice those fine motor skills and have a fun keepsake to take home. Elias loved his necklace. However, during quiet time, he proceeded to take all of the beads back off and completely unravel/fray the string. He didn’t quite understand why we couldn’t put them back on.

Today while Elias was at school, I went to the store to buy some appropriate string. While we were there, I decided to purchase some beads as well since he loved the activity and I am always looking for rainy day fun.

When I picked him up from school, I told him that I had bought the string and the beads and that he could make his necklace when we got home. The only thing I said was that he could make necklaces for other people too if he wanted. I think I suggested Ama and Nana and said he could even give them to friends if he wanted. I didn’t coach him any more than that.

When it was time for necklaces making, Elias excitedly sat down, chose his beads and his string, and announced that he was going to make a necklace for his Ama. He carefully chose each bead, and made me try it on to make sure it could fit. When it was finished, he rushed in to choose more beads. This time he announced he would make one for great-grandma. He made a special pattern of stars for her.

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Next, he choose the bowl of beads with letters on them and told me he was going to make a necklace for me. At first he looked through the beads and said he would make me a pattern too. Then he looked around some more and picked just two beads. I thought he had gotten tired of the activity and I was getting the short end of the stick for being the last necklace created. However, he strung those two beads, held it up to me and said, “Here Mommy! E for Elias and S for Simon!”

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This just touched my heart so much. Not only did he create a gift for me, but he created one with meaning. A gift from his heart. It tells me that despite all of the things I do wrong as a mother, some good is getting through too. I’m not sure why this necklace illustrates this so strongly for me. It just does. I am going to treasure it for…well probably forever. And if you see me sporting a piece of string with two beads, now you’ll know why.

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Ahhh, Spring.

I’ve got my own little piece of paradise right here. And I didn’t even have to leave home. The sky is blue and the sun is shining, but I am in the backyard where it stays cool in the afternoon shade. The birds are performing their sonnets, there is the slight background noise of traffic, and every once in a while, the wind chimes add their tones to the mix.

I am barefoot and looking out on the tulips I planted last fall. Even the grass looks nice because my husband worked hard this weekend. The boys are playing joyfully…remembering what it is like to be outside for a pleasant afternoon. I could get used to this. Of course…I don’t really look at weather forecasts very often so for all I know today could be the last nice day. Or maybe we’ll have a whole week more. I have no idea, and that makes me enjoy it all the more.

And now for the part that most of my readers are probably looking for. What are the boys up to? We played basketball on the lawn last night. We discovered it was a lot more fun than keeping the hoop cooped up inside. However there was one glitch…if a ball rolls under the deck, it is very difficult to extract. (Hence the reason Nathan had grass on his back still when we entertained friends for dinner).

P1220023This morning after art class, I asked the boys if they would rather go to a park or go home to play. They chose to go home and play with the water table. Nathan and I made the mistake of leaving it outside in the backyard…all winter. So let’s just say I had some cleaning to do. The thing was gross. However, in about 15 minutes I had it and a reasonable amount of toys in usable condition. The rest of the toys will have to wait for another day.

The boys had a blast playing in the morning sun even though the hose water is freezing! They soaked themselves and each other. They giggled with glee and screamed with delight. They played pretend fishing games and splashed and “watered the lawn so flowers would grow…..”

It’s days like these that I want to remember.

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Seed Planting!

It was another beautiful weekend, and while we did not get outside as much as I would have liked, I got in a few solid hours of weeding, and this evening we did seed planting with the boys. Elias is very excited to watch the seedlings grow. He was explaining to me that they would not do anything for a few days. I’m glad he knows what to expect.

Here are the boys filling our jiffy pots with soil:

P1210798Simon was very excited to “play” with the dirt, and to do the watering. When it came time for actual planting, he had zero interest. At only two, that is ok. I’m glad he was involved at least at the beginning! Here are the boys getting water for the soil, and adding water.

P1210801 P1210802Finally we got to do the actual planting. We planted cucumbers, squash, watermelon, broccoli, african daisies, peppers, tomato, spinach, pumpkin, coleus, and morning glories. Elias and Simon chose all the seeds…I had nothing to do with it. Elias loved poking the little holes and adding the seeds. (Yes that is me wearing pajama pants…it’s Sunday afternoon. Don’t judge.)

P1210804Now all we have to do is wait for them to grow!

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In Which The Boys Hold Their Cousin

Now that baby James is over a month old, I’ve been talking up things like “singing to James” or “sitting next to James” or “hugging James” with both of the boys. They have both talked about their cousin a lot. Simon walks around holding the baby doll and calls it James. But neither of the boys has shown much interest in actually interacting with him much.

Tonight was our turn to bring dinner, and Aunty Kristy wanted to try to get some cousin shots, so I really turned on the “sit with baby James” burner. And it worked! Elias was very excited to sit with me and James, and then eventually wanted to hold James himself. Eventually, Simon followed suit since he wants to do everything Elias does. This provided us with many cute photo ops, and many very sweet moments between the boys. Both Elias and Simon did really well holding James. They were gentle and loving. Elias wanted to hold James over and over. I almost felt like I had to fight for my baby time.

Elias’ first time holding James.

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P1210779He got in some kisses too:

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P1210791After dinner, Elias wanted another turn.

P1210794It was very heartwarming and fun to see the boys interact with their baby cousin. We never really got to do this when Simon was born so I’m glad the boys are getting to get close to their cousin when he is so young!

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